Author: teachkidsempathy

We are in peak toddler tantrum phase at my house these days. My toddler is 2.5. He has also been going through some big changes. In the last six weeks he has potty-trained, moved into a toddler bed, and given up his pacifier. Theoretically, I know that part of the reason for the tantrums is the […]

My toddler is in peak tantrum season. He yells. He hits. He hurts me and says, I pinch you, or I hit you. Then he sulks and hides in a corner.  And if I follow him, he says “Stop it, chasing me Mommy.” Name the feeling So I might say “You are feeling mad, and […]

Over the past few months, I have been dabbling in gardening.  Maybe, like me,  you have experimented with it as well? And failed? again and again? I definitely would not say that I have a green thumb.  I have killed countless plants, bushes, etc.. in my day.  (Mom, remember when I weeded your strawberry patch […]

My journey I have to admit, until recently, I was not keen on letting my kids play in the dirt.  Selfishly, I would think about the work required of me to clean them up afterwards.   And so, I came up with various excuses for why it wasn’t a good time to get dirty, or […]

One of my biggest pet peeves is when people ask “How are your doing?” in passing, and they just keep on walking before they hear your response. I specifically think of those times in my life, when I was aching for someone to really care about how I was doing and to take the time […]

Have you ever noticed the correlation between food and mood? Ever eaten a heavy pasta dish and felt lethargic afterward? When your kids eat sugar… have you noticed how they behave? We all know that fruits and vegetables are good for us.  But we also have our excuses for not eating enough of them, myself […]

“Mouth hurts.” says my teething toddler. I lie on the couch with Nicholas at 4am.  It has been 3 days without power, water, and intermittent cellular service.  While we have a generator, we turn it off at night. In the cold, pitch black early morning, I try rocking him, teething gel, and offering him juice. […]

“Let your gentleness be known to all men.” Philippians 4:5 Some of the best lessons learned in life are the ones we glean from observation rather than lecture. Gentleness is a prime example.  I have found that I can teach my kids to be kind, calm, and mild mannered…but if I don’t model gentleness…when the […]

Humility– freedom from pride or arrogance: the quality or state of being humble (Webster’s dictionary). ________________________________________ Humility is an underrated character trait, which I think needs more attention in this day and age. Like many of you, I find it hard not to be influenced by our self-centered culture. Sometimes, this fast paced social media […]

Middle school is notorious for being a time when children are a little more self centered than usual.  In part, this is because of changes in brain development.  This self-centeredness is also due to the shifting focus from parental to peer influence.  And throw in the hormonal changes and you can understand why these years […]